How to Know if You Communicate Effectively?

Have you considered yourself an effective communicator?  Here are some indicators of one.

Shows confidence

An effective communicator has confidence to talk to different people.  How can you even talk to other people if you think that they will not talk to you back? Or think that they will not believe on what you are saying? It will all start with the certainty in yourself that you can create a good conversation with anyone whoever and whatever he or she is.

Knows how to pay attention

An effective communicator knows how to give his or her focus to the one who he or she is talking to. It’s so hard to have a good conversation with someone who plays around and looks around while you are talking. Make the other person feel that you are interested in his and her story.

Knows a variety of things

An effective communicator knows a lot of things from the current events to what’s happening to the entertainment industry, I mean he or she is updated with lots of things that’s why he or she is good in starting a conversation.  And of course you can’t talk if you don’t know what will say.

Knows how to deeper the conversation

An effective communicator makes the other person feel the security to open up his or her deeper story. Have you experienced a person who you are not close with but it’s easier for you to tell him or her your problems that anyone else?  It’s because they make you feel that they are willingly want to listen to you.